RHOC newcomer Noella Berenger reveals how she met her boyfriend

She discovered love once more after splitting from her husband James Bergener final 12 months.

Now Noella Bergener has revealed how she met her new beau.

Talking solely with DailyMail.com on the DirecTV Drag Bowl, Noella revealed she met her boyfriend three years in the past throughout dinner with buddies earlier than actually connecting with him in lockdown. 

‘So we really met like three years in the past, and he was buddies with Dennis Rodman who’s at a dinner desk at Maestro’s,’ she defined. 

‘I noticed him, he had a really attention-grabbing desk, I used to be at a really attention-grabbing desk, our buddies who knew one another form of interconnected, and afterwards the invite got here out throughout COVID. There was nothing occurring in Orange County, every little thing was shut down, so we like we warmth the pool, warmth up the barbeque, invite cool attention-grabbing folks over, and he came to visit with buddies.

‘I even inform him, “you’re so cool, you’re probably the most wonderful folks I’ve ever met, by far in Orange County, what are you doing right here? Like why are you right here, you’re too cool to be right here.” COVID after events positively have been very helpful.’

‘Once more, I used to be married then. It was solely when the husband left,’ she clarified.  

Noella joined the housewives only a 12 months in the past but it surely has been a ‘troublesome journey’ for her with a collection of heartbreaks unfolding in her private life.

‘It’s been a really wild journey,’ Noella stated of being a housewife. ‘It was a troublesome journey for me, and it’s not essentially about housewives as a lot because it’s about my life fell aside. My son was identified with being on the spectrum, my husband left, my father handed away, and that simply occurred to be what was captured on my first expertise… it was a difficult 4 months,’ she stated.

‘It’s been an ideal reminder of how resilient we will be and the way sturdy we will be and that previous adage of God solely provides what you’ll be able to deal with.’

Equally, Ashley has additionally realized quite a bit about herself starring on the Actual Housewives Of Potomac – together with how one can brush off the trolls. 

‘It’s par for the course at this level and actually I feel you’re not doing all of your job in case you’re not getting somewhat one thing since you simply can’t please everybody and if you’re pleasing everybody, which means you’re most likely not being true to your self,’ she advised DailyMail.com

‘It took me some time, I do know I’m saying it like, “Oh, so sage,” it’s taken me six years… After I had my son Dean, I actually felt that. I’ve all the time believed and stated to myself, however then I felt it like, “That actually doesn’t have an effect on me”… It doesn’t have an effect on my everyday, so why let it have an effect on how I really feel?’  

Ashley has additionally her new ‘goal’ in life – to ‘uplift and encourage’ fellow moms and girls. ‘I really feel it strongly,’ she stated.

‘It’s coming extra into focus now,’ she stated of her mission. ‘I actually do love folks typically, even when I’ve disagreements and stuff with folks, even the folks I argue with, like Candiace and I, I do know we’ve had so many ups and downs, and it’s been actually tumultuous between us, however on the finish of the day, I nonetheless love her as an individual. I’ve come a good distance.’

‘That doesn’t imply I’m good and I gained’t snap off, as a result of the fact is I nonetheless have emotions, I’m nonetheless not going to let somebody reap the benefits of me, however simply form of detaching somewhat bit and simply saying like, “Even when I don’t such as you, and I don’t like what you stated, I nonetheless simply love you as an individual.”‘