“You were barely 4 months when your mother was beaten like a puppy” — Precious Chikwendu writes to son on his birthday  | PressInformant

Treasured Chikwendu, estranged wife of former Minister of Aviation, Femi Fani Kayode, has penned down an emotional notice for her first son, as he clocks a yr older on Monday February 1st, 2022.

Treasured Chikwendu in a prolonged Instagram put up, said that her son, Aragorn, was solely 4 months previous when her ex-husband, Fani Kayode beat like a pet.

Sharing a slide video of the glad moments she had together with her son earlier than they had been separated, she narrated how she was bodily abused by FFK once they had been nonetheless collectively.

Learn her emotional notice under,

“Completely happy birthday Aragorn Mara’mm❤️ My darling son Lotanna. It is one other 1st of February usually on such days I normally begin the day with an epistle of how superb you’re and the way a lot of an superior son you’ve been to me from conception to this very day however it’s time it’s so completely different.

Lotanna my son, these few months I’ve spent in a lot ache questioning how you’ve gotten been surviving and the way you’re coping given the state of affairs surrounding you. I really feel so unhappy and ashamed that you’ve got been used as a pawn .

You’re that son that provides me peace and calm within the storm, your capacity to grasp me even in silence nonetheless amazes me. I do know you aren’t unaware of the happenings however can do nothing as you simply soak issues in and forge on.

By no means underestimate the bond between your mom and also you the bond that was shaped proper from if you had been in my womb and also you witnessed all of the punches, you took them with me as you kicked so exhausting and would solely relax after I whispered and pleaded with you , affirming that you’d in the future wipe my tears.

It was solely at that time you’d relax and cease kicking as in case you understood how these punches and harsh phrases froze my complete coronary heart and soul.

What haven’t we weathered collectively? You witnessed so many in my womb and if you arrived this world, you had been barely 4 months previous if you witnessed your mom being overwhelmed like a pet. You had been in my arms that evening on the wheatbaker resort after he was launched from ikoyi jail, it was all laughter at first then prayers of Thanksgiving and subsequent punches.

You had been dragged from my arms like a bit of bag of cake and I held on so tightly, the look in your eyes was that of a lot concern , I regarded into your eyes and I might learn you clearly it was extra of “By no means Let Me Go mum”.

So I held on to you, the extra I held on to you the extra the punches got here . You cried out loudly and my coronary heart shredded the extra because the splashes of blood gushing from my nostril landed on you. You had been so terrified and all I wished to do was get you out of that scene.

I used to be in a position to get off with you and ran to the brief keep residence the place chidera and others had been earlier than you slept off on my chest after crying for thus lengthy.👇🏽👇🏽

As early as 4am jom and kubechi had been on the door knocking, with their mother pleading on the cellphone that I’ve a rethink and forgive as it might be unhappy and a scandal if I ended issues on this notice.

Subsequent was at our enugu hideout, someplace off independence structure the place hidden brother (my cousin ikenna) and I saved him protected from arrest in the course of the efcc hunt period , when he insisted I have to come together with him to cover. I couldn’t go away you with anyone so that you got here together with us. One evening he began once more shouting and beating me up for tales I couldn’t even place after which I ran with you when the punches acquired so dangerous, he and his bodyguards/policemen chased us they usually had been dragging you from me in the course of the highway late into the evening. Thank God for the intervention of these vigilante group they’d have taken you from me and that may have been it however I held on so tightly after which the boys requested him to let go however get into his home and settle his points relatively than drag a child at evening provided that he was a public determine. Subsequent morning hidden brother was there to plead with me to forgive and let go. The numerous conditions you witnessed at Aso Drive additionally led to you having some trauma.

You shaped the behavior of being so connected to me, you adopted me in every single place. To the toilet , kitchen , each time i made to maneuver you ran after me in concern. You’re so frightened of even sleeping as you felt you sleeping would translate to me disappearing if you get up. Initially I believed it was due to the bond between us however after I used to be thrown out and I went to Esther’s place as a result of the 7 pastor prophesied that I used to be Delilah and I used to be going to shave Samson’s hair I noticed it was all a trauma bond. You cried so badly after I was away that your father had you dropped at me at Esther’s place by your nannies and the bodyguards . You spent two tonights with me with you clinged to me a lot that I felt each ache in your coronary heart.”

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