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“With the help of our ancestors and gods we will grow old together” – Nigerian traditionalist addresses naysayers who said her marriage ‘will end in tears’ – –
A 26-year-old Nigerian traditionalist, Chinedum Chidimma, and her 30-year-old husband, Chinedum Okemmiri, lately took to social media to mark their first marriage ceremony anniversary.
The traditionalist couple who celebrated one yr of being fortunately married on Monday, January 10, 2022 flooded their timelines with loved-up pictures of themselves and in prolonged captions gushed over how wonderful their union is.
Nonetheless, whereas some social media customers trooped to the remark part to faucet into their pleasure, some trolls made unflattering feedback on their put up.
Some individuals made feedback like “It is going to finish in tears, they don’t know something about marriage, he’ll use her for ritual”.
Reacting to the unfavourable feedback, Chidimma who claimed she first noticed her husband in her dream 3 years earlier than the met in actuality shunned naysayers.
She prayed that the ancestors and gods will strengthen their marriage and assist them to develop previous collectively.
“Pleasure overwhelmed me yesterday, concerning the needs I acquired in our 1 yr Marriage Anniversary. I recognize all of the tags, the feedback. I like y’all. It was posted in alot of teams, some Fb bloggers posted it of their completely different pages. I noticed each unfavourable and constructive feedback. However the constructive feedback overshadowed the unfavourable ones.
“And inside me, I requested why are individuals so bittered? I noticed feedback like:
It is going to finish in tears.
They’re doing lovey dovey now they don’t know what the long run holds for them.
Simply 1 yr you don flip relationship coach.
what have you learnt about marriage each of you’re youngsters.
Him go quickly dump her, you no see him dread and earring
Very quickly he’ll use her Ritual, this one na yahoo man
We should absolutely see their breakup put up
Ah Ah. If there’s something I’m sacred of on this world eh, Its “MARRIAGE “coz I grew up with out understanding my mom, yea! She was alive however doesn’t have entry to my Brother and I. My mother and father have been divorced. The primary time I noticed my mother was in my Ss1. The final time I noticed her was inside Coffin. I knew what I went by way of which made me to be sacred to marry the fallacious man. My Mother earnest prayer for me was to discover a proper and understanding companion. Along with her coronary heart she by no means needed me to expertise little of what she skilled in an abusive relationship.
It has all the time being my silent prayer, Atimes I want to simply earn cash, have youngsters with no man. My Dad being an typical Igbo man and I as Ada will all the time remind me that,” Di bu Ugwu nwanyi. Don’t get me twisted all people mustn’t get married. However the Universe heard my silent prayer and wiped my secret tears. I will probably be 26 and my husband is 30 plus. I gave myself 1 yr to check him and to know if I can do it. However He positively proved me fallacious and instructed me “ALL MEN ARE NOT THE SAME.
ALL MEN ARE NOT DOGS. IT DOESN’T RAIN EVERYWHERE. I feel this Marriage of a factor is all about each events being prayerful. You shouldn’t let your wife do all of the fasting and prayer to maintain her residence. Some usually are not glad seeing each of you content. Ever questioned why your so loving and caring companion began appearing unusual? It may not be odd. Sure! I’ll inform a narrative concerning to this, one thing occurred that at a time I thought of leaving.
“We each usually are not Christians. We’re African Traditionalists. To these wishing we break up or Divorce. You’ll wait tire cox we serve Nature and we’re afraid of alot. Our togetherness was made, signed and sealed spiritually earlier than bodily. I noticed him in my dream 3 years earlier than I met him, I noticed him smiling to me and a voice in that dream mentioned “If he isn’t tall, Darkish and has Dread He isn’t yours. You hardly Detect we’re husband and wife cox We glance alike.
“Some calls him my twin brother. Fact is that we got here from the identical boat, we stay like siblings at residence. He’s my soul mate. He’s my soul tie. And with the Assist of our Ancestors, the gods of our Land we are going to develop previous collectively. With the assistance of Nne Ogwi, Ogwugwu Egbe, Ogwugwu njiokwu, Ulasi Ala Ozubulu Ala Anambra niile we are going to obtain our goals collectively. With the assistance of Nneche Iyiagwu Agbani, Esu, Atavo Ala Akpugo Ala Enugu niile we are going to maintain residing to make one another glad. Thanks as soon as once more..We’re unapologetically Traditionalists. Okwa-ifugo.” She wrote.
