“My first and second wife left me as a result of I didn’t have cash” – Mr Ibu recounts

“If you end up younger and single it’s a large distinction from being a married man, and a much bigger distinction while you begin to have youngsters. When you could have infants, you’re turning into a person, and if you find yourself turning into a person, you’re considering large. 

There have been sure issues I wouldn’t try this I do now, as a result of I’m the pinnacle of my household and household comes first. Additionally, my youngsters look as much as me, be taught from me and emulate me.

I’ve to point out them that I’m accountable, in order that they are often pleased with who I’m. God says you need to nurture them, present for them and that’s what I do. Fatherhood makes you a accountable individual. Now we have fathers who’re accountable and there are others who’re irresponsible and careless.

After I began my journey into fatherhood, I used to be a careless father, however by God’s grace I used to be capable of retrace my steps, construct up myself and at present I’m proudly a accountable father. If you’re a careless father, who doesn’t take care of his youngsters, who doesn’t have love for his and household, who doesn’t have love and fervour for constructing a house, such an individual just isn’t a person. I’ve been capable of dwell as much as my obligations as a father by offering for my household and ensuring they by no means lack.

It’s important to construct confidence in your self. You be taught on a regular basis as a father, and I by no means miss any alternative to be taught on a regular basis and this makes me a greater mum or dad.

I’ve individuals who be taught from me and I educate them how one can construct a house though I had some ups and downs in the midst of making an attempt to construct a house. My first and second marriages failed; they (my wives) left me after having a toddler every for me.

I puzzled what made them make such choices they usually made me know that it was as a result of I didn’t have cash. This made me know that I’ve to have the ability to maintain my household and supply for them and ensure that they’re glad and never have any cause to look down on me.”