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My girlfriend wanted me to stop giving my unemployed friends money so I broke up with her – Nigerian man reveals
A Nigerian man merely referred to as Michael has recounted how he broke up with a lady as a result of she disapproved of his generousity in direction of his mates.
In keeping with him, it occurred shortly after his NYSC programme, they usually have been all unemployed on the time however he was fortunate sufficient to be getting 200 {dollars} month-to-month from his brother.
Michael revealed that each time he and his mates have been going out, he would carry his girlfriend alongside, and he typically sorted the payments as a result of others didn’t have cash.
Nigerian man reveals
He was additionally within the behavior of giving his mates some cash and leaving ideas for waiters at eateries and leisure spots, however his girlfriend who was additionally getting cash from him was not snug along with his act of giving his buddies cash.
She questioned him about it and needed him to cease, nevertheless, fairly than do this, he determined to finish their relationship.
In his phrases; ”I keep in mind courting one woman instantly after NYSC, no work but however I used to be balling on 200dollars month-to-month from my elder brother, which place I no dey catch my enjoyable. There are occasions we go to this occasion centre the place there are bars, swimming pool to relax with my gees from uni days.
We have been all jobless that point and I appear to be richer financially than them. I exploit to carry bae alongside each time cos she was not additionally working. Every time I go away the change with both the waiter man or give my guys cash, she’s going to simply squeeze face like baboon.
I’ll simply carry face wetin be my very own “you no preserve cash for hand wey I exploit do giveaway. It was occurring and on until in the future that she couldn’t maintain it once more and mentioned” what’s my downside, should I give my mates cash, can’t they go and work “I now reminded her that she can be jobless, she mentioned they are going to be depending on me and gained’t be critical with their lives. That’s after I advised her that nobody can do similar favor ceaselessly, in addition they attempting their finest however nothing is coming forth attributable to d state of affairs of tins.
She left angrily and was anticipating I name her again. She didn’t realize it was “o da bo oo” like that, you wish to management who I give cash to however you may demand each time. when my guys cease seeing her and requested me “how about that your good gf” for my thoughts I used to be like she has condemned you guys so badly, she doesn’t even need anybody round me.
For those who overlook such kinda habits, you’ll simply marry the woman that can chase family and friends away. That’s a redflag that shouldn’t be ignored by guys. This similar cash that if you go away the world you gained’t take it alongside.. Hian”
