It was my fault – Nigerian Man takes back girlfriend who cheated on him with his bestfriend

 

 

A Nigerian man has disclosed how he reconciled with his girlfriend despite the fact that she cheated on him with his best friend.

According to him, she is an Indian girl and their relationship kicked off in Lekki, Lagos state, however, when she cheated on him, he contemplated su*c*de.

 

He blamed himself for what she did because he believes he was not fulfilling her wishes and needs.

The man decided to forgive his girlfriend and take her back, and they decided to move their relationship to the next level by meeting her parents as he intends to marry her.

In his words;

 

 

”I was in a relationship with an Indian girl in Lekki, and things had been rocky from the beginning, and she cheated on me a few months ago, which made me su*c*dal, but things are now back to normal.

I also reconnected with her and I have forgiven her and we dating again, and I understand now that it was my fault that she cheated, I was not fulfilling her wishes.

We talked about things we want from this relationship openly and that helped me very much.

She complained that she was not getting good treatment and treats from me, and that devalued her, so I have taken up a night shift to get some extra money for my princess, and I also met with her family as I insisted that she can’t hide me anymore if we continue this.

Her family is surprisingly not racist, as I was prepared for the worst, but her father was very critical of my part time jobs.

One more thing I encountered was that they keep mentioning that I am light skin compared to the rest, that felt backhanded to me but I also thank most high for this.

I have plan to propose to her in December, hopefully, I would make her my wife, and I am most thankful to my pastor who encouraged me talk and find the closure instead of being su*c*dal.

She had cheated on me with my own best friend, so we are doing trust building every Saturday in my church though she is not Christian, she did not complain, and for trust building we are staying in my house on Saturday and Sunday, and we have decided to not be physical till we are mentally prepared.”